Showing posts with label milestone. Show all posts
Showing posts with label milestone. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Thomas Vincent Turns One!

Today Thomas Vincent, our fifth born child and third born son, turns one year old! He is the joy of our family.

Biggest and littlest brothers

Thomas was born weighing an unremarkable 8 lbs 3 oz and 21" long (see here for a trip down memory lane) but has proven to be our biggest baby yet--by nine months old, consistently outweighing his siblings by about four pounds. At his last well-baby check at just shy of 25 pounds, he was in the 95th percentile for weight and 94th for height, so I will update this post when I have the new numbers from his one-year well-check! [Update: Thomas had his one-year well-baby check. He weighs 26 lbs 6 oz (97th percentile) and is 31.5 inches tall (94th percentile). No surprises there!]

Walk softly, carry a big stick.

Thomas had a tongue tie at birth and, like his brother Joseph, couldn't transfer milk, so I exclusively pumped and bottle-fed for weeks. Thomas couldn't take over nursing till nine weeks old (and I was able to wean off pumping about a month after that), so our beginning time together was quite rocky and disruptive to the family. (Read here for the full journey of Thomas being exclusively bottle fed to exclusively nursing.)

Now, a year later, Thomas remains a champion nursing baby, getting a big amount of his calories from Mama, and he can eat solids splendidly! He has eight teeth and currently enjoys just about all the table foods I give him: various meats diced small, fruit, some vegetables, crackers, shredded cheese, and so forth.


Enjoying a muffin

Thomas loves his siblings and being part of the gang. At this age and mobility, he toddles after them all day long.



Ready to co-opt Joseph's 'motorcycle'

Thomas began walking at 10 months--just like his four siblings! Such interesting consistency in one family. He is now a steady walker who prefers walking to crawling, and who doesn't cruise on furniture even if he is walking by it. He can squat up and down, turn on a dime, and is starting to walk fast (like a baby 'run'). As seen in the below video, he doesn't mind walking far away from me!

Thomas walking in the hallway after Mass


Because gates don't work well with our stairs, the layout of our house, and having a large family, our babies tend to learn the stairs really early. By 11 months, Thomas can navigate up and down the stairs just fine, although I still shadow him (unless he sneaks by me) just for safety's sake. One day I was in the school room working with just the baby toddling around. Suddenly, I noticed it was way too quiet, even for one baby, so I looked up and he was gone. He had pried the baby gate away (the only one we have in the house), crawled all the way downstairs carrying a tub of Play-dough, and had climbed half way back up the stairs to me when I ran to rescue him.

Creeping up ahead of me

Master Thomas' typical cosleeping baby bad habits have been more and more problematic, now that we are a larger family and I have more duties that don't involve, say, two-and-a-half cumulative hours each day attempting to get an exhausted baby to be willing to fall asleep. So, this last week, Thomas went through a bit of a Baby Sleeping Boot Camp, and can now fall asleep by himself in two to five minutes. I hope we will all be a lot happier and Thomas will be more rested. (Still cosleeping, just being able to fall asleep when it is time to sleep and by himself--yay!)

Sleeping in his high chair
after Mama had tried three times to get him to sleep in his bed

Thomas is so interactive at this age. He plays baby games with people, such as peek-a-boo, chase and runaway, or little 'baby jokes,' causing peals of laughter.


Thomas playing Peek-a-Boo with Joseph

Thomas gets into mischief, such as unfurling the entire toilet paper roll.

I have a gift for you, Mama!

Look, it's all the toilet paper!

He has begun bringing me board books to read to him! I've begun reading to him at nap and bedtime, instead of just nursing him, and he taps every page, pointing out pictures to me.


Thomas is doing early babbling, in which he makes so many various sounds and it sounds almost like he is talking. I love listening to it. (He's not yet doing that older toddler habit of babbling, with expectant pauses in between while he waits for the other speaker to have his turn.)

In other communication skills, Thomas now screams and throws tantrums just like a Toddler. If he doesn't get what he wants, he sits down hard, throws himself down on his back (often pausing slightly to check behind him for anything in his way), then kicks and screams. He concludes his display by flipping over on his tummy, curling up in a ball, and getting quiet . . . before he peeks around to see if I am watching.

In summary, Thomas is one precious gift to our family. The children all fight over who gets to retrieve him from nap time first, or babysit him this time, or hold him the most.

Happy first birthday, Thomas!

Friday, June 17, 2016

7 Quick Takes Friday

At the end of this 7 Quick Takes is what we at our house have all been waiting for . . . video showing Thomas walking!

1.

We're enjoying getting into a routine of taking the kids swimming on Saturday mornings when the pool opens and we basically have it to ourselves. If I'm busy (which is usually), Chris will take the girls together (so he can help Margaret swim) and then take the boys together (so he can help Joseph swim), while I hold down the fort at home.




2.

Family Books of the Week (in progress or completed)

I felt our family reading experienced a real 'shot in the arm' this week: The children (and I!) were mad to read "Rabbit Hill," as evidenced by early morning pitter patter of feet bringing me the book while I drank coffee, "Maybe we could read another chapter right now?" Meanwhile, I have been deeply enjoying "The Yearling" and sneaking chapters every chance I get. The development of characters is truly superb. John finished "Lad, a Dog" (which he loved) and we walked about, perusing the bookshelves, where I recommended he try "Simon Brute." He came to me one chapter later and said, "Oh Mama, you were right! I am totally engrossed by this book!" And Mary is mad for "Mad Scientists" this week, such that she's sneaking off and reading when she isn't supposed to.

It's a good week for books around here.

Margaret's bed
The boys have built-in shelves by their beds, but the girls do not, so I've taught the girls to store any books they're currently reading on the foot of their beds. I love checking in on them after they're asleep and seeing their piles of stories.



Mary's bed


























3.

Scholastic Scenes


Making Father's Day cards a week early to mail
In a spare moment this week, Mary (7) discovered my old French books from the years I studied the language, and she has developed a momentary passion for learning French. She is walking around the house with her nose buried in my Easy Reader, Berlitz, and the slim phrase book that carried me all over Europe.





4.


On Sunday, I got to wear a new outfit to Mass (good to take myself shopping every few years or so!) . . . 


. . . Joseph insisted on wearing a suit coat in 90-degree weather . . .
"Joseph for President"
. . . and we met a lovely family and invited them over spontaneously for lunch. Fun!





5.

Meals of the Week 

. . . shared to show that "My career is homeschool mother, not gourmet chef!"

  • Saturday
    • bacon-wrapped beef or chicken medallions (frozen from Costco)
  • Sunday
    • Sandwich spread, potato and green salads, chips, etc., when friends joined us after Mass
  • Monday
    • spaghetti and meatballs
  • Tuesday (arriving home from four hours' afternoon absence)
    • "The Napolean Dynamite Special": Frozen pizza and chicken nuggets
  • Wednesday
    • Calzones (right? pizza right after pizza? that's how the cookie crumbles sometimes.)
  • Thursday
    • Taco Night
  • Friday
    • ???

6.

Bonus Reading


"How to Overcome Sins and Faults of the Tongue"--This is an excellent article for adults, especially women (sorry, ladies!), and it is an added encouragement for yet another reason why I think mandatory afternoon Quiet Time for children of all ages is salutary.


7.



Thomas has taken off walking!

He began taking steps at 10 months 2 weeks, and then it took about a week and a half of him practicing two to four steps at a time when . . . he launched! It was, in fact, at Mass on Sunday when he decided he was simply ready to start walking across the cry room, walking across the narthex, and walking across the open plaza where I had to take him outside because he was so loud and excited to be walking. That day, he stayed awake for 13 hours, except for a 20-minute nap on the drive to Mass, despite six attempts of mine to nurse him down to sleep: I think he was making such a huge developmental leap that he was overstimulated!









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Friday, February 12, 2016

7 Quick Takes Friday

1.

On Sunday, we joined friends for a Super Bowl party--my first ever, not that I set eyes on the football game. The two moms were delighted to stay downstairs chit-chatting with our littles children at our feet while the dads took the big kids into the TV room to watch the game.

Joseph rocking our infant godson

2.

When Joseph went in for his three-year well-child check, one of the questions from the doctor was whether Joseph could draw a stick figure. Nope, he doesn't draw anything! But then this week, he busted out with drawing this excellent pig and came to me, "Look, I drew a pig."


3.

I am enjoying seeing Margaret, at almost five, starting to do some more interesting (less babyish) things to occupy her time, like the great game Pattern Play, because it opens up so many new things for her around the house.

Pattern Play
4.

Sorry for the repeated theme, I never tire of sleeping baby boys, pushed up against each other for comfort like a pile of puppies!

Joseph and Thomas

5.

When the kids aren't protesting my being a Mean Old Mama who tells them what to do, they are making little "I love you, Mama" signs posted on toothpicks to carry around, cheering me on.


6.

Thomas is trying to see just how many milestones he can rack up while still six months old.

First time on the seesaw

He tried various more solids this week and loves them all: Cheerios cereal, refried beans, shredded cheddar, diced (not mashed) avocado, applesauce, muffins.I love having a helper in charge of feeding him (under my supervision in the room)!

Mary feeds Thomas

Thomas now crawls with speed, and can successfully crawl up the steps from our sunken den. He pulls up on furniture to half-way and even three-quarters, where he then gets stuck and cries pitifully to be rescued. He is bonking his head often these days as he tries deft and daring feats for a crawling baby! To top it off, he cut his first tooth today!

All this mobility makes me wonder if I'll have another derring-do like Mary on my hands. This caused me to take a stroll down memory lane, where I discovered that

7.

I figured out who I think Thomas resembles: his sister Margaret! What do you think?






Thursday, February 13, 2014

Walking and Talking

In milestone reports . . . Joseph (a couple days shy of 13 months) has now taken twelve consecutive steps! Of course, babies have a way of delaying as long as possible their parents catching their steps on video tapes. Every time I pull out the camera, Joseph keeps plopping to his bottom. And when the camera is nowhere near, he calmly walks across the room like he's a Big Kid.

He's also speaking a bit more. Not only is he saying his second word, "Mama," but today he strung it together with his first word, to say, "Mama, down! Mama, down!"



It's a good thing he's so cute, as "Mama, down!" was being commanded repeatedly while he bopped me on the head at four in the morning. I lay there, half conscious, thinking how joyous it was to witness his first command (for me to take him downstairs) and how desperately I wanted him to be asleep instead.

There are pros and cons to cosleeping with babies and I don't deny it's a mixed bag. But all kinds of baby sleep are a mixed bag, in my opinion! One of the cons of cosleeping that I don't deny is that I'm pretty bad at sleep-training. Joseph is entering what I've experienced as that dreadful transition from two daily naps to one. For the last two weeks, almost daily he's taken only one nap, but he really needs two. I try and try to get him to fall asleep mid-morning and he doesn't. Finally around 11:30, he crashes to sleep for two hours. Then he wakes in the early afternoon and lasts happily until seven at night. I try (and try!) to get him to take a late afternoon nap, but his having woken around 1:30, he just isn't tired yet.

But if he falls asleep at 7:00 p.m., guess when he wakes up? Five o'clock in the morning! Every day for the last two weeks!

And today it was four in the morning. I managed to ignore him ("Mama, down!") and after a whole hour of his climbing over me and batting my head, he fell asleep again for two hours--thank you, Jesus.

Each time I yawn today, I will try to remind myself how cute the little rascal is! One day there will be no babies crawling all over me and batting me on the head, and I will miss it desperately.

Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Space-Time Continuum

I think there is some kind of problem, glitch, or tear in the space-time-continuum.

All I know is that I received notification through Facebook of my upcoming high-school reunion. As I was logging in, I was thinking, 'Wow. I wonder what all those folks are doing ten years after graduation. Time sure flies."

Yeah.

Well, make that twenty years.

It is my twenty-year high-school reunion.

TWENTY.

Previously, I had the perception that old people went to their twenty-year high-school reunions.

Now I know that there is some kind of problem, glitch, or tear in the space-time continuum. Probably this will hit the news soon. Watch for a press release from NASA or the NSA. But you heard it here first!

EDITED . . . because I just realized that my parents graduated high-school between forty and fifty years ago. My brain has just melted down. Does not compute, does not compute . . .

Thursday, January 30, 2014

Published on His First Try

Check out this new author who sits down to try penning his first article and--wouldn't you know it?--actually gets published! The print edition (with a circulation of 53,700) will come out this weekend.

Chris Lauer: Candles at Mass symbolize sacrifice, Christ's light


lauerFeb. 2 is a special date in our household. Not only is it my wife's birthday, but in the Traditional Liturgical Calendar it is also the Feast of the Purification of the Blessed Virgin Mary, also known as Candlemas – an ancient feast which dates back to the early Church fathers.



Read the full article here . . .

Monday, January 27, 2014

Joseph's Big Week

In the week after Joseph turned one, he decided to 'turn things up a notch'!

He cut his seventh tooth.

At Mass when he wasn't throwing a tantrum

He took his first steps, taking a single step about a half dozen times so far.

He began speaking his first word: "down"! He takes a toy, throws it to the ground, exclaims, "down!" and cackles delightedly. The joke never gets old for him!

Wearing his new "teacher's assistant" tee-shirt: thanks T&M!


And he threw his first toddler-style tantrums. I've seen glimpses of these tantrums beginning when I pull him off the stairs and he arches his back and screams. But yesterday at Mass, it was unmistakable. He had found one of the parish's expensive missals which I can't let him play with, so I took the hardcover book away: Joseph flung himself to the ground, began logging rolling around, arching his back, screaming in anger, and would not let me pick him up. He just screamed and screamed at me. I tried to put him in my sling and I felt I was hardly strong enough, he was fighting me so hard. I finally got him calmed down by taking him outside into the sunshine (amazing what open sky does to instantly calm babies), but when later we were back in the cry room and again I had to take away a missal from him, he repeated the whole routine. Honestly, seeing this milestone developing for the fourth child in a row, I saw it as an exciting brain development and fell into fits of laughter in the middle of Mass over the whole thing. Too bad I know I won't keep my good humor as toddler tantrums ensue over the next year or two!

Bonus Reading: I was so touched and convicted this week by reading "Idols of a Mom's Heart" by  Ruth Simon.  As Simcha Fisher (I believe) once blogged about, we are to be Christ for our children, to present the Gospel to them in the way we as parents live. If we can't turn the other cheek, if we can't remain calm through our parenting (including teaching and discipline), if we resort to out-of-control anger and screaming, we are not evangelizing our nearest neighbors. We're teaching them something alright, but it isn't Christ. (Please note that I say this not from my high horse, but from my place as a fallen, very humbled mother.)

Simons writes about our many idols:

My daily life as a mom is replete with examples of how I often turn training into expectations, expectations into idols:
"The desire to wake up to a quiet house is reasonable, but has it squelched my ability to respond to my children’s (sometimes foolish) needs with patience?
"Is my need for peace and quiet so strong I’m willing to be unkind in the pursuing of it?
"Does my children’s whining annoy and inconvenience me more than it drives me to pray and train?
"Am I so prideful in the way I perceive my diligence that I am blind to teachable moments?
"One of my favorite authors, Elyse Fitzpatrick, says this from her book, “Idols Of The Heart”:
“If you’re willing to sin to obtain your goal or if you sin when you don’t get what you want, then your desire has taken God’s place and you’re functioning as an idolater.”"


Sunday, December 8, 2013

Introducing Mater Dei Catholic School

We are official!

Introducing . . . 


Our principal (Daddy!) reading the registration to the children

The North Carolina Department of Non-Public Education requires home schools register by the time the oldest child turns seven years old, so we recently chose our school name and registered it. In honor of the school name (Mater Dei means mother of God), we chose the nearest Marian feast day (the feast of the Immaculate Conception on December 8) to consecrate our school to the Our Lady.


We have a logo.

We have a motto: Ad Jesum Per Mariam, which means To Jesus Through Mary.


We have students and they have tee-shirts to wear.


We have a teacher and she has a coffee mug out of which to drink.


Introducing the teacher and her happy gang of variously aged students!

Saturday, December 7, 2013

John's First Piano Recital

John has been taking piano lessons for something like three months, and today was his first recital. What a delightful 'first' for us parents!


There were fifteen students performing and John went first.


He played "Jackson Blues" and "Ode to Joy."



John's report of the experience? "I loved it!"


Friday, October 25, 2013

Margaret Anne's First Haircut

I gave Margaret her first haircut at two-and-a-half years old. Her hair has begun growing long lately, but she had the classic toddler mullet: short and somewhat wispy up front, party in back!

Margaret was very excited to be getting her first haircut and told me solemnly, "Don't worry, it won't hurt."

BEFORE

BEFORE

AFTER

AFTER

Nostalgia: Click here to see Mary's first haircut at two-and-a-half

Tuesday, October 15, 2013

Someone Else Can Feed the Baby!

Apparently having a child 6-3/4 means I finally have someone to help feed the baby. Yay! (I'm not sure if having a child 4-3/4 means I have two such helpers, but Mary is begging to learn.) Now if only I had eyes in the back and sides of my head, I could make sure the two-year-old stops doing things like putting a big ol' slice of cheese in Joseph's mouth "because he wants it!"


Joseph will be nine months in a couple of days and in this last week has really taken to eating purees. He bangs the tray wanting food and opens his mouth in anticipation of the spoon.


Also he now grabs the spoon to lead it into his mouth. All my babies have done that and been early self-feeders with a spoon, so maybe it's a pattern.

Joseph also will chew/suck on hard things (like pizza crust) and eat dissolving baby puff cereals (but not yet cereal as hard as Cheerios).

John (with his tongue tie) had disastrous problems eating solids, then Mary and Margaret were at such ease they simply started with table food (Mary: chunky, spicy guacamole at Qdoba restaurant when she was not yet 6 months old!). Joseph (also with a tongue tie) seemed to be having trouble so he's my first baby to eat store-bought purees in a mainstream kind of way.

He still gets virtually all his calories from nursing, and is eating about one tablespoon of food three times daily--unless I forget or we're out and about.


Joseph learned to clap on Sunday morning! So, he spent all of Mass clapping and making loud noises of joy, quite similar to the above video clip. I think it is so funny when a baby learns a new skill because I find they often do just what Joseph has done the last two days of naps and bedtimes: he has had trouble falling asleep because he is nursing and clapping simultaneously. Can't . . . stop . . . the . . . clapping . . .

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Joseph Crawls!

Joseph is crawling at eight months and three weeks old! (And he has cut three teeth.)

Thrilled to have crawled his way to the dishwasher





Joseph is my oldest baby to achieve mobility. Perusing my old records showed me that:

  • John was crawling by 6-1/2 months, pulling up and cruising by 7-1/2 months
  • Mary was crawling by 7 months
  • Margaret still wasn't crawling by 7 months, but by 8 months was not only crawling but was creeping up stairs, pulling up and cruising, and rising to stand on her own!


Wednesday, September 18, 2013

Joseph's First Chomper

Joseph got his first tooth at eight months old!

Jogging in the morning with Mama