Wednesday, May 14, 2008

A Small Version of Daddy

Whenever John sits in Daddy's big chair, I have to laugh because he's a miniature spitting image. This morning Chris had to take a work phone call while I was cooking pancakes (the first ones ever I didn't ruin!) and the second he exited his seat, John crawled up there, holding the remote control, morning news playing, coffee cup within reach.
Then John began imitating his dad, using the remote control as a telephone. These days when John pretends to talk on the phone, he actually "talks" babbling nonsense words that sound very much like a one-sided conversation, with pauses for the other conversant to speak.

Speaking of speaking, John is on the cusp of saying "no!" I really don't know when toddlers begin saying "no," but I'm surprised it has taken John this long. Of course, he has long been able to express "no" non-verbally, such as by collapsing on the ground, crying in a limp pile of limbs. And he has long been able to physically say the word, as his word for "nose" is a nasally "noooo." A couple of weeks ago, John saw Chris waving his hand once and quickly adapted his own sign--which looked much like "talk to the hand!"--which meant, "You are telling me no." John only used the sign to confirm that Chris or I was telling him no, he couldn't do or touch something. Sometimes he would even use the sign days later when he saw an object he had once been told not to touch. Then a few days ago, John suddenly began wagging his finger and mocking in a sing-songy voice, "no, no, no!" in imitation of a parental figure doing the same. But he still has never said "no!" defiantly and to one of us. I know that cognitive leap has got to be weeks, days, or mere minutes away . . .

4 comments:

  1. I love that picture of John! Does he have a fascination with cell phones, by any chance?

    You might have some time before the "no-ing" starts. DS doesn't say "no" to us either, but instead just whines or goes limp (LOVE that, of course). He does the wagging finger thing too and is very emphatic when saying, "No, no, NO!" to the cats. It's so funny to watch. He's very diligent about monitoring their behavior (especially Lena who steals food and likes to sit in cabinets). Disclaimer: we don't wag our finger at him, but we do it at our very naughty (or use the word "naughty" on him) cats all the time.

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  2. TV remotes make the best telephones! :)

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  3. ohhhh - he is just so sweet. What a photo! We have some of our 3yo - then 2yo - sitting next to Paul, phone to ear, in front of his laptop - with paul doing the *exact* same thing! it's too cute.

    Charlie has - i just realized - just started climbing on our couches and such. Last night...wanna know where i *caught* him? On top of the kitchen table!! As the girls were cleaning up the kitchen, he must've just climbed on up!

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  4. Shelly: John has been showing great interest lately in the dining room chairs, wanting to climb onto them. I wonder if he's not far behind Charlie in learning how to climb onto the table!

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