While at the LLL conference, we shopped at a shoe vendor and discussed with her transitional and hard-soled shoes. We did not end up buying John shoes, but the saleswoman gave us a good tip. She said that when transitioning her children, she leaves the new shoes out like they are toys, thus prompting the toddler to explore on his own. I recently bought John some semi-hard soled shoes with mesh uppers--sort of like beach or boat shoes. We've left them in the living room and John has asked us to put on one shoe, and eventually both shoes, over and over and over again, like it was a game. At first he'd ask one of us to put on a shoe, then he'd fuss, so we'd take it off, but he'd ask for it again two seconds later. We played the game and within a week or so, John wore both shoes and walked across the living room without crying for the first time. The saleswoman said it can be normal for the transition to hard soles to take some months (which I hadn't realized), so I guess our slow-to-adapt little boy is just taking his time, but making great progress. Here are the shoes:
John does not like to swing, whether on a bench swing next to his dad, in an enclosed baby swing, or on a big swing on Mama's lap. The one thing he liked to do with the swing was bang the post and peer at me from the left and right of it (like he was hiding behind a tree).
Oooh, I love the "grrrr" face!!! That's neat you are able to get John to a nearby park...we LOVE going to the park!
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ReplyDeleteWe usually go to the park on Fridays w/the homeschool group. Well, a couple visits ago, Charlie "discovered" the playground for himself. I told the moms [who i'm usually sittin' around talking to]: Well, it's been nice knowin' ya....see ya in a year :O)
Congratulations on your pregnancy!
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day! Alea
Congratulations on your pregnancy!
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day! Alea