Showing posts with label Mary. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mary. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Youth Orchestras of Charlotte Family Concert Fall 2018

On Tuesday, we were honored to attend the first Family Concert of the Youth Orchestras of Charlotte. The YOC is only one year old, as about 80% of the parents departed with Dr. Ernest Pereira, who had been directing the young for the Charlotte Symphony for 30 years.

Read the story at "There's a new youth orchestra in town--4, actually--because parents refused to lose their leader" in The Charlotte Observer (11/15/18), by clicking here.


Mary (10) at her first orchestral performance

The YOC performed at the exquisite 1020-seat Halton Theater, and I share some photos taken from online to show the venue in all its glory. For a mama who rarely gets out of the house, it sure was lovely to dress up in sparkly clothes (albeit my voluminous I-just-had-a-baby-clothing 15 months later!) and feel like an adult.


Halton Theater, source online

Halton Theater, source online

Halton Theater, source online

When I pointed out to Mary's violin teacher, who was seated with us, that some cute, rascally girl musicians were peaking out from back stage to view the audience ahead of time--"Oh look! They're so short and little!"--I should have anticipated finding out later that my Mary was one of those four adventurers. Those who know her will not be surprised.


Typically, I don't start teaching my baby to be put to bed even by his own daddy till around 18 months and don't start leaving him with an outside babysitter till 24 months or later, but this event was so special that I hired a sitter and left 15-month-old David . . . and without even his crew of oldest siblings or his Second Mommy Mary to help! I was quite nervous until the babysitter texted me that he had gone to sleep easily.



The YOC is made up of four groups. We noted that about 20% of the 200 musicians are homeschooled, which does result in a chicken-and-egg question of whether they homeschool in order to achieve this excellence or whether they found themselves achieving this excellence because they were already homeschooling. I can say from personal experience that even at our young children's level of musical studies, it would be incredibly difficult to maintain this on an institutional school schedule. We employ three music teachers four hours per week teaching piano, violin, theory, and technique, and, for example, Mary alone practices 90 minutes per day plus her theory studies, all on top of a full academic schedule and playing two sports. The level of accomplishment that these high-school students are achieving probably requires two to four hours of practice daily. The 15-year-old choirmaster of the Youth Orchestra (see video far below) also travels for her music education, traveling to an expert in California and traveling to Julliard in NYC every few weeks. At some point, I assume many parents would need to pull their children out of institutional school (into homeschool) to pursue this kind of specialized education. It has been educational for me as a still fairly new "music parent" to see what kind of studies and commitment are required for the kind of musical accomplishments one sees on stage.

Back to my description of last night, the flute ensemble (of high-school aged musicians) first performed several pieces, and then Sinfonia Strings, the ensemble of mostly upper elementary students to which Mary belongs, performed.

The co-directors of Sinfonia Strings

The theme this fall was Americana music. I am more impressed with the Sinfonia Strings now that I've watched just how many months and how much hard work is required to transform students from a group of soloist musicians (which is what these kids are for many years) to orchestral musicians: blending, disappearing, becoming one voice. So, while the next two levels of orchestra truly took our breath away, I now see why it takes so many years and levels--starting at a small ensemble like this one--to reach those higher levels of performance.

Photo courtesy: Markus Kuncuro

Mary was absolutely beaming, her smile huge, the entire time she was performing.

Photo courtesy: Markus Kuncuro














Photo courtesy: Markus Kuncuro

Mary sitting with us for the second half of the show

Third, the Preparatory Orchestra (of mostly middle school aged musicians) performed, followed by the full-sized Youth Orchestra, which I photographed below for comparison. Their sound was gloriously full compared to that of the smaller Sinfonia Strings.


Purely for your viewing pleasure, I share below Caroline Smoak, a 15-year-old homeschooler and the choirmaster (first violin) of the Youth Orchestra, performing the first movement of Barber's violin concerto. It is worth all ten minutes, in my opinion!

(N.B., at the 3:30 mark you will hear the CELL PHONE of the person sitting to our left start ringing and ring at length. Please, let us all remember, to silence, set to "do not disturb," and otherwise turn off our cell phone notifications when at performances--and to double- and triple-check ourselves. I was just sinking in my seat to think how this soloist has worked her whole life to achieve this rank and has worked on this one-time performance specifically for six months, and the thousands of hours and tens of thousands of dollars that went into that . . . all MARRED IRREPARABLY by somebody forgetting to turn off his cell phone.)



We arrived home after a full two-and-a-half hour of musical performance to sleeping little boys. The three- and five-year-old boys reported later that they had so much fun with Miss A---- watching a cartoon, eating a cookie, and listening to her read four whole stories ("it was like a Read-a-Thon, Mama!").

Lastly, Baby David went to sleep without any symptoms but woke up with a 101-degree fever, so I thank God for the graces that David did not become sick just a few hours earlier, which would have caused me to stay home with him instead of getting to watch Mary!

Thursday, November 15, 2018

Mary Saved David's Life Today

Thursday could have ended very differently than it did--calm, cheerful, a family talking too loudly over a dinner of leftovers--all because of one green bottle cap that my 15-month-old choked on.



Scottish Dance had just ended, so I had strapped Baby David and 3-year-old Thomas into their car seats. David is still rear-facing, so I could not see him. We were waiting quietly for a few minutes because Mary was auditioning for the girls' Latin choir. The other kids were playing outside of the van with their friends while we waited.

I was enjoying the blessed silence for a few minutes, as silence is a rare thing.

Mary finished her audition and came trundling back to the van, so her siblings leapt in too. John sat in the front passenger seat, so was oblivious along with me, but the other three kids who loaded in through the side door began screaming repeatedly, "David is choking! David is choking!"

I knew I couldn't crawl back there in tight quarters with any speed, so I leapt out of my driver's door and ran around the 15-passenger van to help.

Mary tells me that David was silently choking with eyes bugged out, face changing color, waving frantically.

I never would have heard anything and he truly could have died in the seat behind me.

I thank God for the grace that my children came back to the van when they did.

In the seconds it took me to run around the van, Mary began sweeping his mouth and dislodged the deeply stuck bottle cap. David vomited all over and was crying (breathing!) by the time I got to him.

Everyone else was fine, but the adrenaline rush was a lot for Mary, who wept with me for five minutes.

Mary is our family's heroine! We thank David's guardian angel for watching over him and we thank God that Thursday was not the day we lost our precious baby.

I don't know how David found a bottle cap in his car seat, of all places, but obviously it was a leftover from one of the children's disposable water bottles from some earlier road trip. In six kids, I do not think I've ever experienced that scary of a choking experience.

Monday, November 12, 2018

Mary Turns Double Digits!

Our firstborn daughter has turned ten! Mary Genevieve is bright, diligent in her work, self-motivated, and thoughtful. Numerous times daily, she will say something to me like, "I've finished doing such-and-so, is there anything I can help you with?"

Her tenth birthday festivities were spread out over several days.

Ear Piercing


Our gift to Mary for her tenth birthday was getting her ears pierced, which she has been requesting for some time now.


I did not want to take her to a mall kiosk where a teenager with maybe half an hour's worth of training uses a possibly unsterile gun to pierce her ears. I (who had seven ear piercings back in the day) had various such teenagers shoot my piercings crooked, have to do them over again, and I came away with infections.

So, we found an actual tattoo and piercing establishment which has gone "somewhat mainstream" in our local mall. This establishment is the only such of its kind in our city which uses the same sterilizing machinery that hospitals use for their surgical equipment and is, of course, staffed by people who have (for better or worse) made careers out of piercing.


Mary was entirely brave and I really should not have been surprised, given knowing this daughter for ten years, when the dreadlocked piercer pulled me aside afterward to tell me admiringly that "She's one of the best kids we've ever had. Usually young people have . . . very heightened reactions."

This child did not flinch.


Afterward we went to dinner together and had a lovely, peaceful time!



Anne of Green Gables Celebration


Mary has read the seven-book series of "Anne of Green Gables" (a fondly remembered fifth birthday gift from her Grampa Neil, may he rest in peace) and wanted to celebrate in that style. This was a lot more complex than when our firstborn son wanted to celebrate his tenth birthday by roasting hot dogs over the back yard bonfire and playing football in the back field!







It was glorious fun and a truly joy-filled time!




Family Birthday

Then on the day of her actual birthday, we opened gifts from out-of-town family and Chris took her on a little daddy-daughter date.



Her siblings gave her a new apron.

One exciting gift was a pogo stick! On the first morning, Mary could manage only six jumps, but she determinedly went outside to try again on every break she could. She announced her new records to me for days and I think now is over 100 jumps in a row!



Happy Birthday, Mary!

Monday, May 7, 2018

Forum Winners' Recital

After the very big day of celebrating Margaret's First Holy Communion, Mary (9) was due in the evening at the Charlotte Piano Teachers' Forum Winners' Recital because she had previously won first place in her age bracket. This earned her her first monetary prize, and we are so proud of her diligence!


Mary with her teacher



We decided that Mary and her dad would be the only ones to attend because it was so important to us that the out-of-town guests didn't shift attention away from the more eternally important sacrament Margaret had just received. This was a difficult parenting decision but, we discerned, the one with better Catholic teaching. Mary was very understanding, even though it would have felt so natural and good for these five visiting adults to go watch her perform in person.

I stayed home making final preparations for the funeral the next morning and making sure everyone got to bed early so they would be well rested. Of course, rest was not to be found for me, but that can be told with the next installment!

Wednesday, March 14, 2018

Federation 2018: Violin

On Saturday the 17th (a month ago!), Mary performed on violin at the National Federation of Music Clubs' festival and we congratulate her on Superior scores on her two solo songs and her one concerto! (Videos are at the end of this blog post.)


We really didn't know if she could pull it off: Like breaking her wrist two weeks before her Guild performance of ten songs last year--it's really a story worth reading here--she caught influenza two weeks before Federation this year and lost an entire week of practice. This flu makes a person so weak, there is no stamina hardly to walk slowly around the house, let alone to stand erect and practice violin for 45 minutes.


When Mary was finally no longer contagious and could get to a violin lesson with her teacher, the teacher doubted that Mary could pull it together in time. But Mary is nothing if not a spitfire, and she rose to the occasion!


She had a lesson on Thursday, and then her teacher sent her home to practice for an additional hour. On Friday morning, Mary woke with instructions to practice for another hour before showing up for yet another lesson . . . and then Friday night, Mary voluntarily practiced for yet another hour that day. Saturday dawned, and Mary got up early to show up at Federation two hours early to get in more practice with her teacher-accompanist! It's that kind of grit that develops excellence, and we're far more proud of Mary's developing character than any score on a certificate.





Mary performed three pieces:


Boccherini's Minuet



Paganini's Witches' Dance



Violin Concerto No. 5, 1st Movement, in D Major by Seitz

Tuesday, November 21, 2017

Mary's Daddy-Daughter Birthday Date

Chris took Mary out for a special daddy-daughter date a few days after her birthday. She chose a hibachi grill for her evening out.








Sunday, November 12, 2017

Mary's 9th Birthday

Our sweet Mary turned nine years old!

Mary is bright and musical, but more importantly she takes her Catholic faith seriously and is a mother's helper who takes initiative to help me in so many ways with the three littlest boys. She's my right hand!


We opened gifts on Sunday morning, then went to breakfast at a nearby diner.


Mary knew that when it came time to open cards from siblings, two-year-old Thomas would feel left out that he didn't have one to give her, so the day before she sat with him and helped him draw a card for her own special day.







When we ordered hot cocoa for only the birthday girl, the generous girl ended up pouring out enough for all her siblings to share.


After Mass, we enjoyed cake at home.


Happy birthday, Mary! Next year . . . on to double digits!

Saturday, March 25, 2017

Royalty 2017

On Saturday, Mary (8) competed for the second year in a row at the invitation-only competition called Royalty (hosted by North Carolina Federation of Music Clubs) here in metro Charlotte. It is a small, statewide competition, with each regional competition limited to 20 students, and each invited studio may send only one student per age bracket.

She played Titanium Toccata by Dennis Alexander, which I recorded her practicing a few days earlier.


 


Mary was the Runner-Up out of of the four girls in her "Page Girl" category (K-3rd grade) with an average judges' score of 98%. (She was Runner-Up last year too!) If for some reason, the first place winner can't attend state finals, then Mary will go in her stead.

Congratulations to Mary!

Saturday, November 12, 2016

Mary's 8th Birthday

Happy birthday to our first daughter Mary Genevieve, who is eight years old today!

Our family is so blessed by our girl who is sparkling (and sparky!), bright and interested, and growing to be such a joyful helper in the family. I enjoy very much how, after nearly eight years of consistently being a night owl, Mary is now one of my early birds, and wakes in the wee hours to go on long walks with me so we can talk. She is my ever more competent helper and a good student.



We enjoyed eating a quick birthday breakfast (Fannie Farmer buttermilk scones) and opening Mary's family gifts before John and Mary were whisked off to a music competition and were gone much of the day.





In the evening, we celebrated with two other families who joined us for dinner. Just for my own fun, I tallied up that the 15 kids were ages 1, 1, 2, 2, 3, 4, 5, 5, 6, 7/8?, 8, 8, 9, 10, and 10. Plus the other two mamas are pregnant. :)  So much abounding life and joy!

Chatting around a bonfire

The simple menu was:

  • crudites and little snackies
  • salad with various toppings
  • delivery wings
  • delivery pizza
  • Chris' wonderful sauteed mushrooms
  • bakery birthday cake



A couple hours before our friends showed up, I worried that we hadn't planned any formal games: would the kids have any fun?

Well, they didn't even pass through the house upon arriving, but all made a beeline for the back yard where they spent the entire dark and quite chilly evening playing. They only came indoors to retrieve food because they were making their own fun nonstop for three hours.










Two toddlers in the toy storage bin--in lieu of a play pen