We had great success a couple of days ago making little pizzas out of English muffins for lunch. Pizza is actually a newly "safe" (accepted) food for John. As he's accepted it increasingly over the last few months, at first he accepted only an exact kind of pizza crust cooked the right way, with the plain cheese removed. Slowly he's accepted more and more variations of pizza. I really thought he'd resist this little homemade pizza, but he thought it was great!
Also, he willingly ate cheese for the first time. We were making the pizza and he remarked of the shredded mozzarella, "I love cheese!" I didn't comment, but was thinking it was a strange comment for a child who has never willingly eaten cheese in his life. Then he popped some cheese in his mouth, remarked again that he loved it, and asked if he could eat a bowl of it. I said 'yes,' and he did!
Then today we made homemade granola (oats, wheat germ, brown sugar, butter, oil, coconut, vanilla, almond extract, raisins).
I set up the kids with Kumon workbook pages to occupy themselves while our granola baked.
I set up the kids with Kumon workbook pages to occupy themselves while our granola baked.
The granola was delicious! The kids and I really enjoyed it (even though John picked out the raisins). I think next time I will add sliced almonds for protein. And just think of the cost savings: this one batch made the quantity in a large box of cereal, which would probably be $5 (or more for granola, which always comes in those expensive, itty bitty boxes). But these ingredients probably cost a couple of dollars. Yay!
Other than these little ventures, we've been spending a lot of time outdoors, me resting in a chair and supervising the riding of bikes, drawing with chalk, and endless digging in dirt. (By "resting in a chair," I mean hauling my huge pregnant body out of said chair minimally every five minutes to negotiate something or rescue someone.) I remain stymied about how to explain to John what an "echo" is, as he keeps asking me about it, but persists in believing it to be some kind of creature, instead of the effect of sound waves bouncing off of hard surfaces. In a potty training update, introducing stickers and prizes (prizes Mary really does want) has resulted in Mary reducing how often she stays dry in a day rapidly down to zero. Yes, zero, she is not making it to the potty at all now and she couldn't give a hoot except she asks every so often if she can have her prize now. And this is with me taking some mom-friends' advice to try giving her no reaction, positive or negative, in order to take away the power struggle. At least I know I can manage two in diapers, having done it last time!
Oh that Mary. No matter what you say about her you can't make me like her any less!
ReplyDeleteWhen I hear about potty power struggles, I always think about the mother of my best friend from high school. She said, when I had no children and still knew everything, that she ended the power struggle with her stubborn 2nd daughter with a super spanking and the commandment "Thou SHALT use the potty!" And that was the end.
ReplyDeleteNow, I can't imagine you (or I) taking that approach, but it worked for her! Lol.
I was pretty much approaching my wit's end with my first 2 yo when my sister sent a box of my niece's clothes. Including underwear!!! The desire to wear Alyson's underwear was all it took. I think there were 2 accidents. Maybe Elaine can send underwear? Or someone else?
With all the others, I took the approach that we're just done with diapers. There was no question that they were capable, and I just kept warning them that this was the last box of diapers. There were more accidents that way, but we made it. I don't really recommend that when you're 9 mos. pregnant, though i can't believe that I wasn't that way at least a time or two.
But relax, she won't go to college in diapers. ;-)
Sara: I've done both those things! I took away all her diapers in a big cheerful ceremony in which we marched through the house and said bye-bye to all diapers and boxed them all up. We have super fabulous girlie underwear that she loves (she calls them "pairs"). I've tried versions of naked bottom and underwear training.
ReplyDeleteI've also spanked for the obviously willful non-accidents, which is what they are with her. She has absolute self-control and she'll potty right in front of me right where I tell her not to potty while staring me in the face. She doesn't seem to care.
And this is in the face of her having been fully beautifully self-trained for several months starting at 18 months before she chose to revert. I've stuck with this for a while, but it's been something like two months straight of her simply peeing in her clothing and peeing and pooping on my rugs over and over again all day. The laundry is immense. This late in pregnancy, I can't take the stress of the battle anymore so I guess I'm waving the white flag and she's going to be in diapers for a while.
It's truly hilarious that my GIRL with whom I did elimination communication from 3 months old is going to train later than my BOY who was conventionally diapered.
Each little one surely is different. The way to Mary Elizabeth's heart and mind seems to have been with chocolate. First I used those mini M&M's for each time she went on the little potty. She would get 2 or three and we would practice colors then, too. Finally when she started pooping on the potty, she would get a Dove chocolate heart. She has relatively few accidents now, and when they happen she is very upset. She likes being a big girl.
ReplyDeleteYou know my struggles with Will. :/ We might be seeing some light at the end of THAT tunnel, finally. He's only 4 1/2.
I love your kitchen creativity! You and the children do have a lot of fun there. Mm mm good.
Looks like you are getting some use out of that cookbook! Wonderful! I haven't tried anything in there yet! (Even though I liked it so much I bought it twice! ;) )
ReplyDelete"she calls them 'pairs'" - that's the cutest thing!
ReplyDeleteSarah W.: Yes, thank you again! We are having fun with this cookbook!
ReplyDeleteTridentineWife: Do not be deceived! I am relying heavily on frozen foods (a lot of Trader Joe's) these days. And restaurant take-out! The little kid recipes I've been making are super fast. And I can make bread only because of my stand mixer, as my pregnancy-induced carpel tunnel syndrome won't let me knead dough!
I've been on a homemade granola kick recently. I put chopped almonds and shredded coconut in it before it bakes and chopped apricots afterwards. Yum!
ReplyDeleteI think I would like the molasses bread very much!
I hate potty struggles! When Kate was two she didn't like to do #2 in the potty and I had tried "everything". I finally told her that she would have to start cleaning up her own messes out of her underwear if she did it again. Sure enough she did it again so with my supervision she had to take the soiled underwear and rinse the #2 out in the potty. Did she say "Eewww"? No, she swished it around in the bowl and said, "Look, it's a mermaid!"! Well, that was the end of that because it was a lot of work to make sure her hands were clean enough after the mermaid adventure!:) Going with diapers for now will work, too. She will tire of them, and once she sees the new baby in diapers she might start to see what a big girl SHE is. Good luck, I am rooting for you! My current struggle is to get Will to stop saying "Mom, STOP!" as he has heard his 15 year old sister say. Of course he takes it out of context and it sounds much brattier coming from a 3 year old!:)
ReplyDeleteWe had the super cute girlie underpants, to, but it was the fact that they were Not Purchased By Mom and they had belonged to her older cousin that made them attractive! Plus, it was all her idea AND I tried to discourage her because I didnt want to deal with the mess. So, maybe Mary needs to think it's all her idea and it's not what you want!
ReplyDeleteWe made granola yesterday- apricots, coconut, sunflower seeds, raisins, oats (butter cinnamon maple syrup.
ReplyDeleteI get what Sara is saying--- some external source might be the trick. Maybe a beloved babysitter can give her a gift (wrapped in paper even?) of some underwear. And that could be motivation? But if you'd like me to send some of clare or bridget's underwear I would be more than happy, if you think that would help ;)