Our day in suburbia was a little quieter. Although I'm operating on three hours of broken sleep, so my day had its own kind of stress and chaos! After a trip to the grocery store, the weather had finally warmed up and dried out enough that John and I could plant the "white linen" California poppy seeds my dad had stuffed in my Christmas stocking.
Dad: I've since realized that the drier vent blows air right above where the flowers will be. I know poppies like it hot and dry, but is that going to kill them? (See the vent in the photo below.)
The garden is waking up after winter! Our red bud trees:
Lenten rose:
Mahonia macrofila:
The carpet of Vinca minor:
The pink shrub roses:
The pink shrub roses:
Viburnum doublefile:
Today I let John watch a cartoon for the first time in eight days. I just needed him to be still for a few minutes. After I got my wits back about me, I tackled how I was going to take out the garbage can by myself (normally Chris' job). I know it sounds like nothing, but I had to think about my plan. I didn't feel comfortable leaving such young kids in the house alone (more John than Mary, as she can't get into much trouble yet!). But it's a bit of a matter to haul a heavy garbage can down a sloping driveway while bringing along a baby and a toddler who bolts toward the street. I ended up wearing Mary and hauling the trash can with one hand while clutching John's hand with the other hand. At one point the can started to tip, but there was a car coming and we were only five feet from the street, so I simply had to keep gripping John's hand. All's well that ended well and I kept the can upright. (Chris is laughing right now that only an English major can make a whole story out of taking out the garbage.)
Today I let John watch a cartoon for the first time in eight days. I just needed him to be still for a few minutes. After I got my wits back about me, I tackled how I was going to take out the garbage can by myself (normally Chris' job). I know it sounds like nothing, but I had to think about my plan. I didn't feel comfortable leaving such young kids in the house alone (more John than Mary, as she can't get into much trouble yet!). But it's a bit of a matter to haul a heavy garbage can down a sloping driveway while bringing along a baby and a toddler who bolts toward the street. I ended up wearing Mary and hauling the trash can with one hand while clutching John's hand with the other hand. At one point the can started to tip, but there was a car coming and we were only five feet from the street, so I simply had to keep gripping John's hand. All's well that ended well and I kept the can upright. (Chris is laughing right now that only an English major can make a whole story out of taking out the garbage.)
John has been learning how to help with changing the kitchen garbage bag. If we open up the bag, he can insert it and get the edge of the bag all the way around the edge of the can! (Then he claps at his accomplishment.)
As much as I would rather have kept watching TV, or basically done anything that could have kept me prone, I escorted the kids out for a walk in the nice weather to keep a certain toddler from becoming stir crazy. While Chris is gone, I am trying to keep up with many structured activities to keep John happy because when John is a whiny pill, I lose my temper and I don't have a wonderful husband to help relieve me right now. Better to take away opportunities for losing my temper! (John, being two, refused to look at me for the picture.)
Katherine,
ReplyDeleteIt looks to me as if the dryer vent is far enough from the planter to not cause trouble. California poppies are pretty tough.
Dad
Trust me when I say you did more with two than I did when DH was away. :) You rock! Hope you slept better.
ReplyDeleteSounds like your "wholesome meal" rivals Emma's last night. I made a lovely cornbeef, cabbage, potatoes and carrots...Emma took one look and exclaimed "That's pretty yucky Mommy!" so she ended up with a peanut-butter sandwich. At least she ate a handful of dried fruit too. : )
ReplyDeleteSounds like you're doing very well with Chris gone...I know ALL about how easy it is to lose one's patience and temper (I don't seem to have ANY these days!).
Your garden is just lovely. I can't wait until we're in a house where I can have a garden. It's a dream of mine.
ReplyDeleteJaneane: I would be on Cloud 9 if John would eat a peanut butter jelly sandwich (or even if he would eat separately bread, PB, or jelly) or dried fruit!!! Our feeding evaluation with the occupational therapist was rescheduled for April 20.
ReplyDeleteRebecca: Yes, a garden is a joy. May I also recommend you try to get a house with a screened-in porch? I have found it to be a fantastic place to let John play. He thinks he is playing "outside" but he is safely locked in. I'm working in the kitchen right next to it. He can't escape. It's just great.
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