Sunday, November 30, 2008

Churching of Women for Katherine

Our priest also performed his first ceremony of the Churching of Women. There isn't a Novus Ordo version of this ancient ceremony, which has all but disappeared, but there is no reason the old ceremony can't be celebrated. It's a beautiful event for new mothers: "Churching is the woman's way of giving [thanks] to God for the birth of her child, and predisposes her, through the priestly blessing that is a part of the ritual, to receive the graces necessary to raise her child in a manner pleasing to God." (It is not a purification ritual, a common misperception.) Motherhood is hard enough and I'm not one to turn down free graces!

The ritual begins outside the church and proceeds inside, to represent the woman's being welcomed back after having her baby. (The Church permits women to be released from Mass for six weeks after even an uncomplicated birth without any culpability. Of course, a complicated birth or any health problems would release a woman from her obligation to attend Mass for as long as it took for the problems to be resolved.)


Father leading me into the church (I am on his left, his stole is over my arm, reminiscent of how he places his stole over the baby when the baby is led into the church):

I gave thanks for my two precious children and husband, my new daughter, and my healthy pregnancy and delivery!

5 comments:

  1. katherine - wow, that is truly beautiful!
    I've heard how that *used* to be done - and also incorrectly informed how it was a "purification" of the woman/mother - but didn't know that it *could* still be done. Or at least havent' heard that women still do.
    Thank you for sharing!
    And you look so joyful and content - God bless you and your growing family!
    A blessed Advent!

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  2. that is a beautiful tradition! i think it's incorrectly seen as the purification because that's what a similar thing is called in orthodox judaism if i'm not mistaken.
    you are so blessed katherine!

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  3. How beautiful! One of my favorite traditions!

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  4. What a beautiful tradition, one that I had not heard of until I began reading your blog. While it's not the same thing, I find the Mother's Blessing during the Baptismal Rite to be extremely powerful and it gives me a(hugely) renewed sense of faith and purpose - something I think all moms need! Thanks for giving me a chance to learn something new about our faith! God bless.

    Enid

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